For every 1,000 births, by age 50, women outnumber men 954 to 920, according to a 2009 U. If a woman is interested in you, she'll probably initiate contact.
Tell everyone you know that you're interested in dating. Save Money: Get AARP member discounts on travel, shopping and more 2. It's not "two girls for every boy," like the Beach Boys sang, but demographics trend that way. The good news: As the decades pass, women increasingly outnumber men, which subtly works in your favor. That's one reason why Betty and Veronica no longer sit by the phone waiting for Archie to call. And while you're at it, make sure your Facebook page won't raise eyebrows.
One thing we have been struck with has been the important role that dinner plays in the social (or not-so-social) lives of most older adults.
With the obsession that today’s media has with youth and appearance, you could be forgiven for thinking that it’s only the young who are looking for companionship, that dating is a young person’s game. Which of the following images do you think the media is more likely to use to accompany an article on online dating? At the same time, more older adults over 55 find themselves single and looking, either through divorce or the tragic loss of a husband or wife they loved for many years.
Once you get into your fifties and beyond, the actual number of your age becomes less and less significant.
Far more important is what shape you are in, how healthy you are, what activities you can do. If you’re active and like going for long walks and playing golf, you’re going to be much more interested in the fit and energetic 82-year-old who can share your activities than the 65-year-old waiting on a hip replacement who can no longer walk long distances. The other stunning aspect of dating for young people is how much looks matter.
And always being the lone single person when your married friends want to catch up for dinner starts to become a little tiresome.
More than any other activity, dinner is where older adults feel the isolation of being alone most strongly.